I have just been to see a friend and we have been chatting about a book that I bought for her last year. The book is The Secret by Rhonda Bryne.  My friend has had a tough time recently and found that this book helped her enormously to be as positive as possible and keep her dreams alive.  If you have not read this book, then I recommend it to you.  Click here for details on Amazon

I first came across The Secret just over a year ago and know that if has been a superb aid and support to many. It has opened people’s eyes to potential and possibilities and how we have such a marvellous part of creating our reality. The essential elements are that what we focus on is what we get, so it is good to choose something great to focus on. Creating and manifesting is a good way to live and certainly great to be aware of.  It can work for us or against us so it is helpful to be aware and choose!  It is another way of finding more about the Law of Attraction.

I came home and got my copy of the book out and have been dipping into it again.  It is most refreshing. I also like the DVD and CD set, both of which have more detail on them.  I have them all and find them all really useful at different times. I sometimes feel guided to dip into them again, like today! 

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I know one of my students decided it was not right for her and that is good that she cared enough about herself to leave it until she wanted to know or maybe never look into it.  Just because someone thinks it is good does not mean it is good for all.  Personal choice is essential. We are not all ready for everything at the same time. It may not be right for us. The right thing comes along when we are ready for it.  Some months later she emailed me to say what a profound effect the book had had on her.  When I had originally spoken about it she was not ready, but the right time had arrived and it had changed her life. She and I frequently have “secret” chats! 

Knowing is one thing and remembering is another!  I believe that there are “nudges” and helpful opportunities all the time but sometimes we can be going too fast or be too stressed to pay attention to these.  When we slow down enough it is easier to spot these and hear the messages that can be transformational. 

I am so fortunate to have my son, his partner and their gorgeous little boy staying here over the Easter Holidays.  My grandson has the cheekiest and most gorgeous smile and he is delightful as he smiles all the time. He is such a happy chap and laughs at everything.  Seeing the world through the eyes of a tiny little soul is such a privilege.  I find myself stopping and watching him all the time.  I get little done but that is the best thing about being a grandparent.  I can choose to spend time with him as I do not have to!

A lovely phrase that works so well is “create the desire and release the need”. When we need something to happen it often does not as the whole energy of ‘need’ is like a ‘blocker’. When we know what we would like and then just let it go, it is easier for it to happen. I use a system that works for me of Plan A (my preferred option) and plan B (if plan A does not happen). Either way it will be fine. That way there is no “needing” being sent out and things are more likely to work out.  My friend today realised she had been needing something to happen and worrying about it not happening! Whoops – that is a recipe for disaster!  Luckily we were meeting up and she realised and so we talked it through and had a good laugh about it. She refocused and things have picked up again.

I wish you a lovely Easter Holiday.